Exploring Feminine Power

By Coach Marlany

June 20, 2024

Embracing Grace, Strength, & Transformation

In the dynamic landscape of professional development and coaching, understanding the multifaceted nature of feminine power is crucial. This article delves into the inherent strengths and transformative potential of women in leadership, blending traditional feminine qualities with modern professional demands.

Reflecting on my journey, I’ve come to appreciate that feminine power encompasses more than just grace and elegance. It includes resilience, nurturing, and unity. This power is evident in the strength of a mother, the determination of a leader, and the compassion of a friend.

“There is both admiration and fear for the grace and elegance of female power,” my sister used to say when we discussed Venus, the goddess of love in Greek mythology.  

This statement has been a guiding star, shaping my journey from girlhood to womanhood and leadership.

Throughout history, feminist power has evolved through struggles for women's rights, suffrage, and gender equality. These experiences have  nurtured empathy and compassion, intrinsic to feminine strength.  Across cultures, feminine power takes on diverse forms. It may manifest through matriarchal systems or the reverence for female deities. Yet, its essence remains universal, shaping societies and individuals.

Warning: Unpopular Perspectives Ahead

Women possess inherent power that goes beyond physical strength or dominance. By challenging societal norms and embracing our inherent strengths, we can disrupt outdated systems and empower ourselves. When I read posts stating it’s tough to be a woman, I’m not convinced.

America Ferrera’s portrayal of Gloria in “Barbie” sparked global applause, resonating deeply with audiences.

"It is literally impossible to be a woman. You are so beautiful, and so smart, and it kills me that you don’t think you’re good enough. Like, we have to always be extraordinary, but somehow we’re always doing it wrong….”  ~ America Ferreira’s portrayal of Gloria in Barbie

Her powerful speech delved into the relentless pressure women face daily due to societal expectations, shedding light on their experiences and raising awareness about the challenges women encounter.

Is it really that difficult to be women? It is very important for women to grasp the depth of this and understand that her speech describes the system as rigid, reinforcing the perception that women have no control over their lives– further fueling a sense of helplessness, and inability to do some

Here’s the thing that Ferreira missed,   “Culture is just a set of unspoken agreements between all of us that we inherited from the people who came before us. These unspoken agreements are way more malleable than they appear, they aren’t fixed and they will dissolve when challenged.” ~ Dr. Clare Zammit

Is it really that hard to be a woman?

Throughout history, feminine power has evolved through struggles for women’s rights, suffrage, and gender equality. These experiences have strengthened women's resolve and nurtured empathy and compassion, intrinsic to feminine strength. Across cultures, feminine power manifests in diverse forms, from matriarchal systems to the reverence for female deities, shaping societies and individuals alike.

Consider the achievements of women such as Margot Robbie, who earned $59 million last year as the star and producer of “Barbie,” surpassing Tom Cruise’s earnings for "Mission Impossible.” Other notable women include:

  •  Margrethe Vestager: European Commissioner for Competition, overseeing significant competition policy within the EU.
  • Jennifer Doudna: Renowned biochemist and co-inventor of CRISPR gene-editing technology.
  • Angela Merkel: Former Chancellor of Germany, influential in European politics.
  • Ginni Rometty: Former CEO of IBM, a leading figure in the technology industry.

Empowerment in Action: Three Practical Strategies

To challenge and change existing systems effectively, it’s crucial to recognize that both masculine and feminine qualities can coexist. Here are three practical strategies for empowerment:

  • Elevate Other Women: Acknowledge and celebrate the brilliance, achievements, and potential of women around you, including those who may surpass you in power or success.
  • Showcase Your Own Talents: Take ownership of your strengths, accomplishments, and contributions by actively sharing them with others, rather than waiting for recognition.
  • Embody Balanced Power : Embrace and express both masculine and feminine qualities with confidence, blending autonomy, assertiveness, and logic with empathy, intuition, and collaboration.

Women hold immense power, and you have the ability to challenge and disrupt these unspoken agreements. By embracing your unique strengths, supporting one another, and advocating for change, you can create a more inclusive and equitable society for all.

Are you prepared to empower yourself and navigate the corporate landscape with elegance and conviction?